February 2013 PRESIDENCY MESSAGE

February 2013 PRESIDENCY MESSAGE


Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Emmeline B. Wells

In celebration of the 170th Birthday of the Relief Society, I wanted to share a couple more interesting stories that I have read recently.  The Deseret News Mormon Times had a great article on Sister Emmeline B. Wells, whose birthday comes about two weeks before that of the Relief Society and who served as General Relief Society President from age 83-92.  Which is pretty remarkable in itself, and then there are all the other things she faced in her life that just add up to a very inspiring example for us to learn from.  The article from the Mormon Times is at the purple link below and I highly recommend reading it, it has different details than the bio below and both contain really neat stories.  
 

http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865551019/Emmeline-B-Wells-story-is-truth-more-glorious-than-fiction.html 



And below is a short biography from the LDSWomenofGod Blog.  Hope you enjoy learning more about one of the amazing women of the early days of the Relief Society!!  And hope to see you out to our Birthday Dinner on Thursday at 6:30 at the Cultural Hall--come as you are, bring a friend, call for a ride!  NURSERY PROVIDED!!


Emmeline B. Wells
 May 3rd, 2009
 From: http://www.ldswomenofgod.com/blog/?p=765

Emmeline B. Wells was sustained as the Relief Society general president at the age of 82. (Deseret News archives)
 Emmeline B. Wells Our fifth General Relief Society President, Emmeline B. Wells, was an amazing woman. We need to remember her and her great work for us. Emmeline Blanche Woodward was born in Petersham, Massachusetts on February 29th, 1828 (leap-year). Since her childhood years, she felt she was meant to accomplish something specific and significant. She was bright and began teaching school at age fourteen. When she was fifteen, she married James Harris. She was baptized during this time, and together with his parents, traveled to Nauvoo to join the Saints. James left to go back east to find work and never returned. The child they had together died, leaving her totally alone, his parents having returned to their home in Massachusetts. She began teaching again and eventually married Newel K. Whitney, as one of his plural wives. She traveled with the Whitney family across the plains and settled with them in the Salt Lake Valley. Two years after arriving, Newel died, leaving Emmeline with two daughters.

 On Newel’s death bed, he asked Daniel H. Wells to marry and care for Emmeline. Pres. Wells was busy with church responsibilities and was not around for much of their forty year marriage, but Emmeline got on well with her sister wives (seven of them). In fact, when it came to polygamy, Emmeline felt it was a true doctrine, as well as a vehicle that gave women freedom and independence. Near the end of Daniel’s life they were able to spend long hours together and they both enjoyed that special time they had.

 While the Wells family lived all together in one house, Emmeline had her own home with their three daughters, where Daniel would visit from time to time. When business turned bad, money became tight and, at age 44, Emmeline began writing for the Women’s Exponent. This became her livelihood and only source of income. She soon became Editor and Chief, a position she would hold for 35 years. Her writings in the Exponent became a place to vent her strong feelings about women and their potential. She said, “I believe in women, especially thinking women.” She used pen names through the years such as: Blanche Beechwood, Amethist, Emmile, and Aunt Em. Her main objective, through the Women’s Exponent, was to get Mormon women involved in bettering the state of women. The best way to do this was to fight for women’s suffrage.

 This became Emmeline’s life. She served for many years as president, representative, spokesperson, and ambassador for Mormon Women at various suffrage meetings across America and even in Europe. She was honored for her diligence and her strong voice. At one time, a friend visiting from London said, “I have met two queens, Queen Victoria and the Queen of Utah, Emmeline Wells.” 
Emmeline B. Wells was the editor of the Woman's Exponent magazine from 1877 to 1910, when she was called as the Relief Society general president. (LDS Church History Library) Emmeline became Relief Society President at age 82 and served for 11 years. Her greatest achievement was to almost single-handedly teach women what they could accomplish in this life through the pages of the Women’s Exponent, and it was thanks to her Mormon women got the right to vote. Words to describe her are very specific of character: feisty, sarcastic (sometimes caustic), inspirational, generous, keen executive ability, stylish (she liked jewelry), a thorn to her enemies, and always repentant. She could call Susan B. Anthony friend. She was a bridge-builder between Mormon women and Gentiles seeking after a common cause. In many portraits and photos of her, you will find that she offers her left side for view. In later years, she felt this was her better side and rarely faced the camera full on. She did not like to wear black in a society where black was often worn when you reached middle age, whether a widow or not. Instead, she would wear blue or white, just to stand out and be her lovely self. I look forward to the day I can meet and visit with this one-of-a-kind spitfire of a woman.
 At the 50th Anniversary of the Relief Society, Emmeline was the concluding speaker. Her remarks included these words, “Not only that 50 years ago the organization was founded by a prophet of God but that woman is becoming emancipated from error and superstition and darkness…That light has come into the world and the gospel has made her free…That the key of knowledge has been turned and she has drunk inspiration from the divine fountain.” When the “key was turned”, Emmeline believed women were finally given a voice. Emmeline received an honorary literature degree from BYU, she unveiled the Seagull Monument on Temple Square, and she sang in the Tabernacle Choir. At her funeral, in the Tabernacle, the whole state of Utah was in mourning with flags flown at half-mast. In 1928, at a celebration in the State Capitol building, a bust of her was unveiled which bears these words, “A Fine Soul Who Served Us”. Much of this information comes from a lecture given by Carol Cornwall Madsen

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

170 Years of Relief Society--What Does it Mean to You?


It has been 170 years since a small group of women met, with the Prophet Joseph on a historic day that would shape the lives of millions of women to come.  Do you ever step back and think of what it really means to you to be a part of the Relief Society?  

You are a member of the largest Women’s organization on earth, and one with more power to do good than any other that has ever existed, because we are organized under the power of the Priesthood, the Power of God on earth. 

Actual notes and minutes of the very 1st Relief Society Meeting.
If you have a few quiet minutes to think about that today, maybe even take out your journal and right down your feelings, I think that you, like me, might be taking something very wonderful just a bit for granted.



If you have a few minutes today, this week, this month, there is a great site, all about the Relief Society--it has all kinds of things like bio's on each of the past general presidents, minutes from many of the beginning meetings, and many of the major projects the Relief Society has accomplished over the years.

OH, And by the way, we will be celebrating the Relief Society's Birthday on 
MARCH 22nd, 
a Thursday, 
at 6:30
 in the cultural hall!  
We will have a few sign-ups for anyone interested in helping with food, but other than that, it is a come and enjoy, bring a friend, have a nice evening celebrating this great organization of sisterhood that we have been blessed with!!

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Feb 2012 PRESIDENCY MESSAGE

(Our Focus this month in Relief Society is: CHARITY IS THE BASIS FOR A CELESTIAL MARRIAGE 

Dear Sisters, 
February offers another opportunity for us to express our love for those dear to us. Many complain that it is just another holiday to sell greeting cards, flowers and chocolates. Any gift given at any time is appreciated, especially if the motives are pure. 
Our Savior spent his whole life giving love to everyone. “He healed the sick he raised the dead. . . . He cared for their spiritual well-being, but He also cared for their temporal needs as well. . . . Why did he do all those things? He had only one motive -- love. This motive means everything.” 
“We can do things with less-than laudable motives. Quoting his father, Mormon, Moroni wrote that if we give ‘a gift, (and) doeth it grudgingly; . . . it is counted . . . the same as if we had retained the gift; wherefore we are counted evil before God’. (Moroni 7:8,9).” 
“Why we do things is probably more important than what we do. . . . While it’s important to remember that we should not judge another’s motive, we can judge our own. We need to look inside and take stock. Are we doing what we do out of love? Or has some other motive taken over?” 
When we find ourselves needing to talk to our spouse or another member of the family, perhaps we could remind ourselves, “How can I say what I need to say in the most loving way possible?” The few extra seconds it may take could make a big difference in that relationship. 
“When others’ needs start to matter more than our own, and when others’ successes are more exciting to us than our own, we are beginning to experience the kind of love that our Father in Heaven and our Savior have for us. It is a love without dimension. It has no boundaries, no limitations. It is pure, infinite, and eternal.” (Quotes from Russell T. Osguthorpe)
Love, 
Jamie, Cindy, Loree, & Kathy